Graduation Day Sweats
Thursday, November 18th, 2010Graduation day is fast approaching. The season is already upon us; everywhere you see school children (some of them won’t be that for very long) strutting about excitedly, some can be seen quietly crying in the corner, some are clearly holding their tears back, so much so that you can see your own reflection in their eyes, and some are walking with their chins held up high, proud of their scholastic achievements. Everywhere you see the season of graduation is making its presence felt. But where did all the years go, you ask yourself. Wasn’t it only yesterday that you had that big fight with Elizabeth? But when you start counting, you show eight fingers; one for every year! And wasn’t just a couple of days ago that you had that big laugh about that something? This time, you show three fingers. Where, oh where, did all the years go? You never thought you and your mates would ever have to don those graduation caps and gowns; they have always been for the seniors! But, the more you look about you the more you realize that not only are you a senior now, you are at the fag-end of being a senior. Soon you will be presented with academic gowns for graduation and leather bound graduation diplomas and you will be, very politely, asked to leave the school premises.
Sure, that is not a pretty thought, especially if you are attached to your school and your school life. It is perfectly understandable if you are in that position. After all, you will never get to live the life of a school student, for being a student in college is different; it has its good bits, but it is different nonetheless. During such times, even the sigh of graduation caps and gowns can be nerve wrecking. My advice? Let the tears flow, it will do you good. Bottling up your fears and emotions is not a good thing. If you feel saddened at departing from school, then let it be known to the world. This time had to come sooner or later, and it comes in everybody’s life, so you are not alone. Sharing your inner feelings will help you connect with others who are on the same boat. Don’t be afraid to put on that dark graduation gowns and caps (caps and gowns for high school graduation tend to come in darker shades, but it is not a requirement). What lay behind you was full of joy, I am certain, but it does not do to live in the past and have no hope for the future. Look beyond the horizon and you will see good things waiting for you on the other side.
Remember, life on the other side of graduation can be as sweet as what lay before. It is the person that makes the moments, thus the fun moments will always come as long as the person is there to receive them.